I was nine, I went to a small catholic private school in Carmel California. Clint Eastwood was the mayor, a nun was the principal and Mrs. Wise was the God fearing woman we looked in the eye while we said our prayers. Mrs. Wise looked on with approval and a satisfactory smile that said ‘I’ve finally gotten through to her’ when I chose a Rosary out of the prize basket. She looked horrified when I tore open the plastic and put it around my neck.
“The Rosary is not a necklace Emily. You don’t wear it.”
“But its too pretty to put in my pocket, and it fits right over my head, see?”
“Its purpose is not to look pretty, but to keep in memory certain principal events or mysteries in the history of our salvation…take it off.”
“Can I have the pencil then?”
Yikes, this was bad, I was the only kid in my grade who wasnt actually Catholic and Mrs. Wise did not approve. This was even worse then the time I crashed communion just because I was hungry.
Later we were told to get out a piece of paper and a pencil and write about ANYTHING we wanted.
“Anything?”
“Yes, Emily, ANYTHING. And when you’re done you will read it aloud to the class.”
(Whoo hoo!)
I had earlier in the year fallen in love with ‘Steel Magnolias’. My parents taped it for me and I watched it everyday, usually more than once a day. I had not only every line memorized but every scene, voice inflection and sarcastic undertone, the movie was pure poetry to me. And when I found out that ‘Shelby’s’ new movie had just come out on video I begged, BEGGED my parents to let me watch it. How appropriate to be called ‘Pretty Woman’! I didnt care that it was rated R, I HAD to see Shelby in her new movie, all that mattered was that I had heard she did not die in this one.
So I didnt have to think very long about what I was going to write about. And when we were done writting and I was the only one who volunteered to go first I marched up front with my pretty ‘necklace’ and my best ‘you’re gonna love this’ face and read my essay about how when I grew up I was going to be in movies like Steel Magnolias and Julia Roberts latest movie Pretty Woman, which I let them know I had just watched the night before and highly recomended.
When I was done with my witty, well thought out, brilliantly written masterpiece I looked up and saw a wide eyed tight lipped Mrs. Wise rubbing the gold cross she wore around her neck between her thumb and her finger. (I guess hers was in fact a necklace.) I waited for my applause and was excited when Malia raised her hand to ask me a question.
“Isnt Pretty Woman rated R?”
Malia read her essay next. Turns out her grandma had just gotten her a doll that REALLY crapped and peed….I have four children who do that and STILL dont find it very interesting but OK. She finished after saying UM 17 times (I counted because my dad had taught me at a young age that if you have the chance to talk to a room full of people the last thing they want to hear you say is ‘um’ and I had been sure to not say UM even once.) The class clapped, Mrs. Wise smiled and the day went on. When it was over Mrs. Wise picked the best, I sat up straight and smiled because not one of their stories about their dead pets and crapping dolls had come close to my perfectly articulated dream of someday playing a diabetic whore with a heart of gold on the silver screen and not only did I know it but I knew Mrs. Wise knew it too…but it was Malia and her incontinent baby that got the award, the applause and the smile from our uptight teacher.
The next day was awards day. Mrs. Wise (an ironic last name for someone so blind to talent) had a tall stack of certificates. She gave out awards for Outstanding student, perfect attendance, most improved, outstanding girl, outstanding boy, cleanest desk, best hair cut…(ok that one I may be making up but seriously these awards were a stretch) Every kid in the class got an award but me…EVERY single kid.
On the way in from recess the girls behind me told their teacher about a bee in my hair….and I remember being flattered that they noticed.